[Lsea]

Sounds like you are being smart about it. My husband was the same when we had our homestead, but he didn’t even help me with heavy stuff or building the chicken house and yard. He did help with some of the fencing around the house and yard, but most of the time I was on my own or my neighbor would help if he saw me struggling with a project. Like you, I just did what I felt I could handle and didn’t overdo. I also enjoy working outside in my herbs and flowers.